Confidence, and No Confidence – Blog No. 8

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An important initial distinction to make is the difference between confidence and esteem. They are not the same thing. ‘No confidence’ suggests that there is a courage lacking in a person’s actions, a lack of belief in what a person is capable of doing – and by rights – should do, but doesn’t. Confidence – understandably – is the currency of politics, of scam-artists and esteemed liars. Also, it is the medium used by those who are certain about what what they want, and know that they can achieve it. Confidence is not arrogance, that is another story in itself.

Esteem is more personal, perhaps more fragile than confidence itself, is. Esteem is what affords an individual success, real success. This is because it is authentic – it cannot be manufactured or conjured up at will. In other words, it is a purely natural state of being. Esteem exists where a person is familiar with themselves and their purpose, and both the knowledge thereof – and the understanding – fills them with peace. That peace cannot be bought at any cost. Confidence is at times no more than a means to an end. Esteem has more integrity.

No confidence usually stems from a dented ego. Or damaged pride. This can be repaired in due course with the correct ministrations. Low self-esteem happens to persons who are failing in their focus, their purpose. It is not possible to have high self-esteem when you are not in a position to fulfil your reason(s) for being. If you consider that three quarters of this planet’s populace cannot currently fulfil their true reason(s) for being, you will understand why this earth is in the dire straights that it is.

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3 responses to “Confidence, and No Confidence – Blog No. 8

  1. Memory Birth Day (9/6)

    Without the bell’s beats,
    No one hears the bell’s sound.
    Without the drum’s beats,
    No one understands the drum’s voice,
    So if you do not speak out
    What do you dream?
    If you don’t dream,
    any thoughts, ideas-
    won’t show up
    You’re kept in your head.
    When you don’t open your mind,
    You’ll forever see no direction
    It should be more than footprints –
    In the sands of time

  2. Voice of Modern Slavery War of Bright Quang, struggles for one’s self, because of no one of parents of the world has was born a child who was servicing war for a world power, but without benefits. When it’s been enacted for the statutory by its Constitution, but, it has never performed its constitutional Rights.

    His struggles takes wisdom to convince injustice power without used violent while he’s based on the constitution, statutes and statutory. For the struggles must be won from injustice power, but not look like an ephemera.

    In fact, justice is long lasting, but power has a short life. Happiness of mankind is not luxurious matters, whilst, human dignity is great more than everything in the human life; and hence, he only trembles to his poor intelligence, but never trembled from his poor life because of Bright Quang fights back Modern Slavery War out of his body.

    Biography:
    Bright Quang, he has been creative for the seventeen books; whilst, he’s poet, sculptor and specialist painter.
    He’s inmate of War Power of the America without pays benefits, come to the America in November 23, 1993, graduated Bachelor Degree and Nonprofit Management in C.S.U Hayward, East Bay.
    In conclusion, the rest of his life fights for the America Justice, because perform justice, which is peaceful as anti- justice is demagogy.

  3. Bright Quang said, “Justice is long lasting, but power has a short life.”

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