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Understanding – Blog No. 22

understandingIt is an interesting thought.  How do you convey an understanding?  That is some skill, when you can do that effectively.  It is a skill we are all learning, all the time.  It is about being skilled in communication.  However you choose to do that.  Understanding is visceral.  You can feel it.  How do you confer a feeling?  First you must understand the feeling before you can attempt to share it.  When you hear a truth, remember that you do not need to remind yourself to remember it for the future, when you hear a truth it sinks right in.  You have to do nothing more than hear it.  Hearing is not the same as listening.  Also, it is best if you do not start trying to fight the truth with reason – man’s reason ought not be valued as much as it is in this world.  It tries with its noise to out-shout others whose opinions are more valuable.

It is said that love means understanding a person’s position when they wrong you, treat you badly.  Instead of lashing out, you stand back and you consider what pain the person must be in.  Pain governs a great deal of bad behaviour and oftentimes deserves empathy.  This can be challenging.  Of course, should the person treating you badly simply be an arsehole, then take yourself out of their equation.  In life there is really little point in surrounding yourself with arseholes, do not allow yourself to become one, either.  It is a choice.

To share an understanding with another is a beautiful thing indeed.  Your understandings will guide you in life.  They guide very effectively when you have them accessible, your understandings lead you to ever-new perceptions about people, times, places.  Fresh perceptions are necessary in life.  They inspire you.  When you understand something new, or you understand a thing differently to the way you understood it before, you give yourself tools with which to work your life around you.  It is worth taking time to understand a thing, things.  Tools come in a variety of shapes, and sizes.

 

 

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Sharing – Blog No. 11

shareIt does not matter what it is that you have to share, as long as you do share it.  If the problem is that you do not know what you have to share, then yours is a steep climb to the plateau of productivity.  It is through sharing – and sharing alone – that any single human being is going to reach their full potential, their nirvana.  If you imagined that you had reached nirvana already – or your zenith, if you like – then you can concede that you were quite possibly mistaken.  There is a way to go yet before anyone gets anywhere.

Sharing your experiences is helpful.  Sharing your perceptions is optional.  Sharing your cynicism is unwelcome and sharing your destructive criticism is pointless to you in the long run.  It slaps you on the back of the head on its return journey.  There is always something to share.  A smile.  A truth.  The last Rolo.  A private joke.  The list is endless.  You do not need money to share your wealth.

Appreciate sharing.  Both the giving and receiving.  Sharing takes time.  Time in this world is a gift.  Feel free to give of yourself as often as you can manage without depleting your reserves or exhausting your resources.  There is no point in that.  If you are no good to yourself then you are not much good for anyone else.  You must have others with whom to share (sharing with yourself is not quite as useful), so ensure that you are good to both yourself and the others you come across.  You need their input.

If you did not learn to share as a child, perhaps now is the right time to teach yourself how it is done.  It is a life-skill you require.

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